You can get the female music perspective at the following spots on the Web:

GO GIRLS MUSIC "cuz chicks rock"
Dedicated to the world of indie music. Whether you're a solo artist, a member in a woman-fronted, all-girl or mixed gender band...this is the site for you! Music genres here are diverse, ranging from rock to pop, ska to metal, and everything in between.
http://www.gogirlsmusic.com/

EMERGING WOMEN IN MUSIC
http://www.guitarsite.com/newsletters/000515/20.shtml

Women Performers @ GuitarSite.com
http://www.guitarsite.com/bands5.htm

WOMEN OF MP3.COM
http://www.mp3.com/womenofmp3/

HOLE MUSIC - Courtney Love's new site
http://www.holemusic.com/

RockrGrl
http://www.rockrgrl.com/

FemMusic
http://www.femmusic.com/

And for something else...
gURL.com - discussing issues that affect the lives of girls age 13 and up in a non-judgmental, personal way. Through honest writing, visuals and liberal use of humor, gURL .com gives girls a new way of looking at subjects that are crucial to their lives. gURL.com content deals frankly with sexuality, emotions, body image, etc. Not just music... http://www.gURL.com/